WHEN SHE SAID SHE COULD NOT FORGIVE HER HUSBAND FOR INFIDELITY, she was saying that she loved herself more than him! She worshipped fidelity more religiously than God! She valued, in other words, his total faithfulness to her more than his love, more than love itself! For to forgive is love—divine love! TO SAY YOU CANNOT FORGIVE IS TO SAY YOU CANNOT HAVE THE LOVE OF GOD! You cannot love as God loves, because that’s all God does all the time—forgive! God has forgiven his wife the Church for infidelity thousands and thousands and ten times ten–thousand times! He forgave Israel for unnumbered infidelities and the Church for innumerable infidelities—spiritual whoredoms! THE DIVINE SUPERNATURAL MIRACULOUS INFINITE MARVELOUS LOVE OF GOD IS LOVE ENOUGH TO FORGIVE! If you don’t have love enough to forgive‚ you don’t have love—because forgiveness is love! Jesus Himself said following the Lord’s Prayer: “but if ye forgive not men their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses.” (Matthew 6:15.) She’s a proud spoiled little brat and extremely self-righteous! Now, he is proud, but I wouldn’t consider he is self–righteous. He doesn’t consider he could never make a mistake. She worships her husband’s attention, she makes it a God, and wants his attention only for her, and doesn’t want to share his attention with anybody. Not even his family.THE WORSHIP OF MARRIAGE LAWS IS A LEGALISM—that the law is inviolable! The legalists say that nothing can supersede it—not even the love, mercy or the grace of God And if they violate the law they cannot be forgiven! THIS IS THE JUSTICE OF THE DEVIL, the righteousness of Satan! This is what he advocates all the time! “They have broken the law!—JUDGE and STONE them!”—Just like the Scribes and Pharisees! THEY WORSHIPPED THE LAW MORE THAN LOVE! They worshipped their own self-righteousness more than the righteousness of God! They worshipped judgment more than mercy, and when it comes right down to it they worshipped vengeance more than mercy! “FORGIVE US OUR TRESPASSES as we forgive those who trespass against us!” If we’re only going to be forgiven the way we forgive others and be shown the mercy that we show others, some people are going to be in a pretty bad situation, especially the churches and self-righteous churched out Christians, who are almost the most unforgiving people I know of! EVEN THE PUBLICANS AND THE SINNERS AND DRUNKS AND THE HARLOTS ARE MORE UNDERSTANDING AND MORE FORGIVING‚ because they know they’re that way and they can’t help it and they’re more merciful, more forgiving because they’d like to be forgiven themselves! But some people are so self-righteous they think they never make a mistake! They’re always right, so why should they ever have to be forgiven, why should they have to forgive others? IF YOU CAN’T FORGIVE, YOU CANNOT POSSIBLY HAVE REAL LOVE OR REAL HUMILITY! You haven’t got mercy, because love is forgiveness and mercy! Which kind of person are you!—The just, unforgiving‚ unloving, unbending, unmerciful proud self-righteous?—Or the merciful, loving, yielding, forgiving, humble, unrighteous sinner saved only by the grace of God!—The latter are going to Heaven‚ the former to Hell unless they are saved!—Jesus said so!—Which are you! He that is able to receive this message let him receive it.
Say this prayer if you want to be saved: Jesus, I want to know you, and to live forever in Heaven, I know I have made mistakes and done bad things- and I am sorry. Please forgive me. I know I don’t deserve it, but I accept your love and I accept you as my Saviour. I believe you died on the cross for my sins ,and rose from the dead. Please come into my heart and life and fill me with your Holy Spirit and give me peace. Amen